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Many queer women look at butch-butch couples the way many straight people look at gay couples: Whatever its source, the norm against butch-butch relationships can present some obstacles for butchy types like yours truly who find themselves romantically drawn to other butchy types. Personally, I choose to believe that this makes me extra gay.

I happily donned my necktie and wingtip shoes and began looking for a woman to date who presented basically like I did. Like many queer newbies, I started by testing the waters online. All of this, I figured, meant I had two choices.

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One, I could try to femme it up enough to attract the objects of my desire. But after having been married to a man for five years, I refused anothed return to a life of halfhearted drag: At first, this second approach seemed promising.

I wrote to more feminine types and replies stacked up in my inbox. Emails were exchanged; dates were penciled onto calendars.

Perhaps, I thought, it was just internalized homophobia that prevented my pulse from quickening at the sight of a conventionally beautiful woman. While there were upsides to dating femmes, they were all external upsides.

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F or example, other butches started to talk to me like I was one of them. Welcome to the club.

Plus, dating sseek makes it easier to find your clothes on the floor the next morning. But in my head and my heart, dating feminine women made me feel like I was role-playing and not in a good way.

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So I looked for butch-butch socials and butch-butch mixers, finding none. I cruised other butches and quickly learned that there are plenty of—er—informal social sanctions against doing so.

anothed This gave me a little ray of hope. Eventually, I learned what most of us learn if we eventually settle happily into long-term monogamy: My partner has dated women all over the spectrum.

She does not explicitly identify as butch, but to give you an idea: Best of all, after eight years together, glimpsing her across a crowded room still makes my heart race.

BW is the author of the popular lesbian blog butchwonders. She also curates a selection of clothes and other products for masculine-of-center women at butchstore.

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Getting over "the one that got away" Previous Lesbianing with Anotheer Getty Images Eventually, I learned what most of us learn if we eventually settle happily into long-term monogamy: