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Because the truth is, as you all know, that unless you have lived it, you will probably never get it. To say yes to a call from God that no one else wants to hear or acknowledge. To take in a child of trauma. You are depressed because darkness and strife have taken over your previously semi-docile home. You are scared because you never know what the day will Lonely wife want sex Valley City threats?
Waiting for the shoe to drop. Because it always, most definitely does. You feel like a neglectful parent because you see your other kids withering away, living in their own fear, sadness, trauma.
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Forget all of that, because no one gets it. By definition, they know how to survive by lying, charming, manipulating. They push away those that care the most. But you already know that. Because you live it. Oh, my heart just breaks at the injustice of it all.
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And your Heavenly Father is proud. So hold up your head.
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Uplifted instead of judged. Did you get that? No one will ever know what you know.
Forgive those who mistreat, malign, slander, or betray you. See how many things they are accusing you of.
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He let God avenge. God will make right.
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